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[Budaya] Bila umur 40 tahun...

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Author: SelakLangsir    From the mobile phone    Show all posts   Read mode

Post time 15-6-2019 07:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
.. Dulu aku cita2 nak g umrah sebelom umor 30, alhamdulillah ada rezeki. Aku dpt jejak mekah masa umor 29. Tp umor ke arah 40 ni aku pk nak habiskan segala hutang. Nak debt free. InsyaAllah kalau umor panjang

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Post time 15-6-2019 07:45 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Lagi 5 tahun..

Umur 40 and above - plan nak balik kampung...tinggal di kampung. Sekarang ni tengah usahakan kebun buah sekangkang kera warisan arwah ayah. Tanam pelbagai pokok buah baru...sekadar cukup untuk keluarga. In Sha Allah, lagi 5 tahun dah boleh tuai hasil (AAAAMIIIN ya Allah).

Dah niat dalam hati - istiqomah urusan bekal akhirat.. Tabarakallah

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Post time 15-6-2019 08:11 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bila umur dah 40an ...sedar diri masih x cukup bekalan
dah mula rasa takut...rasa kerdil..harapkn rahmat dariNya

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Post time 15-6-2019 09:17 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
42 and anak baru darjah 1. So kena banyak menabung utk anak. Since im all he got. My dad always tell me, my time is over. I cant do things as pleased, no more about me.

Hmm kdg rasa x fair pula...selagi bernafas kenalah ada dreams and try best as we could. Cuma purpose of life berubah. Still i terbaca the biggest thing in life is hope and faith. So selagi nyawa dikandung badan.. kita buatla sebaik mungkin.

I just feel anxious and pray things at age of now sentiasa sihat. All of us. Insyaallah
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Post time 15-6-2019 09:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
dah beberapa tahun masuk 4 series. oklah anak2 dah besar. yg bongsu pun dah tahun 6. bila nk buat apa2 contoh pilihan warna tema raya, mmg kena amik kira pilihan anak2, nk keluar makan luar, kena tanya anak2 dulu, derang ada byk pilihan yer.  dan diri kita automatik byk tinggalkan hal2 lagha contoh hal2 retis dan dunia hiburan.

dr segi kesihatan mmg kena extra jaga sb umur 40 ke atas mudah diserang penyakit.
dr segi kewangan oklah dah stabil. loan rumah dah habis bayar cuma tinggal loan keta. itupun sb sepanjang dah kawen dah 3 kali tukar keta.
masuk fb sy lebih byk dengar ceramah pendek ustaz wadi, ustaz kazim, ustazah asma dll. yg lain2 ok la.



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Post time 15-6-2019 09:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Hmmm... Some people set targets or have specific plans on what they want to achieve, where they want to be at the age of forty. Generally, most people would want to become better, successful, financially independent, leaning more on attaining piety as preparation for the hereafter.

I don't have any plan or target, except for hoping an improved version of my current self; for I believe that God is the best planner, and if it is meant to be, it will be.

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Post time 15-6-2019 09:38 PM | Show all posts
Uh umo macam tu.. agaknya I bahagia disamping isteri2 dah kot.
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Post time 15-6-2019 10:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
gigahertz replied at 15-6-2019 05:40 PM
i nak settlekan urusan dunia i sebelum 40

Tu semua utk dunia.. settle kan la by the age of 40. savings pun penting sbb kita tak tau tahap kesihatan kita in future cmne kan..
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Post time 15-6-2019 10:54 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
dreamcatcher replied at 15-6-2019 07:42 PM
.. Dulu aku cita2 nak g umrah sebelom umor 30, alhamdulillah ada rezeki. Aku dpt jejak mekah masa um ...

Nk debt free kan? Sama la. I yakin ni idaman semua org.. semoga menjadi kenyataan yah!
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Post time 15-6-2019 10:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 15-6-2019 09:17 PM
42 and anak baru darjah 1. So kena banyak menabung utk anak. Since im all he got. My dad always tell ...

It's okayy.. kita happy anak2 pun happy nanti insyaAllah.. kita try our best to live life to the fullest. Education savings pun penting kan. In future there might be changes in education system so kita xtau apa jadi kan..
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Post time 15-6-2019 11:10 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Dah 41
Terasa kerdil diri ini...
Mengejar saham Akhirat
Bahagia gan kehidupan sekarang

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Post time 15-6-2019 11:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mawardia replied at 15-6-2019 10:54 PM
Nk debt free kan? Sama la. I yakin ni idaman semua org.. semoga menjadi kenyataan yah!

InsyaAllah...
Bahagia kalau apa yg kita nak tu tercapai
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Post time 16-6-2019 12:11 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Mintak2 umo 40 nti aku ade la degree. Pastu plan nk bykkkan cash or saving. Ni utk retirement plan la kekdahnye

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Post time 16-6-2019 12:40 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Otw.. Nk kumpul saham akhirat utk diri sendiri n fmly.. kt tmpt kja pon dh kurang bcakap/mengonion cam dedulu..

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Post time 16-6-2019 03:07 AM | Show all posts
akk bila dah 40 an ni akk dah mula cool down skt2..
tak nak sentap2 sesgt dah..mula sedar diri
kalau org dah tak suka kita.akk pandai2 bawa diri
takyah sibuk2 nak bantu2 kalau org tak nak kita bantu..
tambahkan amal ibadat perlahan2..anak2 dah bujang2
ni akk mula pedulikan diri akk sendiri pl..maksudnya sblm
ni semua utk laki dan anak2.skrg ni utk diri sendiri dan laki
lah pl.anak2 samb blajar jd step by step anak2 blajar berdikari..
akk dgn laki pantau dan tegur nasihat bila perlu ..byk jg lah
tp perlahan2 ubah yg -ve jd byk +ve..

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Post time 16-6-2019 03:27 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Circle of death is getting closer
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Post time 16-6-2019 07:18 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Buat yg terbaik je. Moga sentiasa ditunjukkan jalan yg lurus jln yg diredhai Allah
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Post time 16-6-2019 07:38 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Belum masuk 40 so tak tau, cuma plan nak lebih banyak beribadat, pi hadi majlis2 keagamaan sebab sedar diri usia makin senja. Hahaha
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Post time 16-6-2019 09:35 AM | Show all posts
I kawen umur 25...
Dr start kawen dh plan mcm2 dgn hubby..
We started everything from zero...
Masa muda hutang sana sini, struggle..

Utk anak, kitorang  target nk setel everything before 35...
Alhamdulillah dpt 2 pasang masa umur 33..

Our target by 40, patut dh ada rumah sendiri, hutang makin teratur (debt free)
Ada saving, blh start holiday overseas
Anak2 pun dah besar...

Bila i masuk 4 series, Alhamdulillah...
Antara pencapaian kami berdua
1. Karier makin stabil for both of us
2. No more hutang piutang credit card.. Bila travel & guna cc, make sure blk setel semua
3. I punya loan semua dah setel.. Personal loan, loan rumah etc.. Yg tinggal cuma loan kereta (just to show ada monthly commitment pd bank utk future..yg ni bank inform i)
4. Fokus pd education anak2...
5. I dpt habiskan Master
6. Saving utk anak2 dan family
7. Spend more time with family.. Travel every year..
8. Lebih fokus pd diri sendiri.. (more me time).. Jaga kesihatan everything

We never know what will happen in future, kena seimbangkan dunia dan akhirat..
As for now, if anything happen to us, Insya Allah anak2 tak terabai..
Utk diri kami berdua, saving hari tua pun dh simpan. Tamau menyusahkan atau guna duit anak2

I rasa, bila menginjak 40, masing2 makin matang. Masalah tetap akan datang..
Lebih tenang dan logik mengatasi emosi



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Post time 16-6-2019 10:59 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Next year nak 40 dh..anak makin besar selagi mak ada ank kecik meaning mak still young la...hahahaha..
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